Emerge and Recover

From a painful breakup

Reeling with shock, confusion, hurt and pain?

Are you worried that you are so lost, you know longer trust yourself to make the right choices for you and your children?

Or that you will never recover from this?

Or that you will be on your own forever?

Or that you will never be happy again? Or that it is your fault if your partner has left (that’s certainly what they said when they left)?

That you are not worthy?

That you have lost all sense of self?

That everyone else is calling the shots?

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In this 6-part course, I will show you how to survive the immediate aftermath of a breakup and start to emerge from the turmoil

This course will help you to:

  • Survive when the unthinkable happens

  • Make sense of what has happened

  • Regain control

  • Deal with damaging emotions

  • Prepare to move forward

  • Keep your self-respect and rebuild your self-esteem

How does it work?

The course is divided into 6 modules. You need to work through each one before moving to the next. Jumping to the end in the hope that it will make you feel better does not work. Instead, you have to follow a process. That is what gets results. The process of working through what is happening is what will help you. You will get there. You will feel better.

Each module consists of:

  • A video which gives you plenty of content (I have over 12 years of experience and I have worked with over 1,100 clients like you, on a one-to-one basis)

  • A worksheet which you must work on. The reflective element is essential to your recovery. It is a process, which I know works. My method has now been adopted as the way to recover from heartbreak

What is in the Emerge & Recover Course


Module 1 ~ Understanding Your Breakup

  • How does it feel? Making sense of what happened
  • What you are feeling is entirely normal
  • Immediate coping strategies
  • Taking steps towards a shift in your mindset


Module 2 ~ Surviving

  • Regaining some control in your life
  • Dealing with grief and loss
  • Making changes
  • Boundaries and ‘scripts’


Module 3 ~ Making Informed Decisions

  • Take your time, but act
  • Get the right information
  • Understand your relationship 


Module 4 ~ A Deep Shift in your Mindset

  • Small changes are choices
  • Making small choices to help with your recovery
  • Enough is enough
  • Accepting what is


Module 5 ~ What if you get Stuck?

  • Recovery does not happen in a tidy way
  • Understanding what self-destructive behaviours are and how they impede your progress
  • What is stopping you?
  • Working towards accepting what is


Module 6 ~ Starting to think about the future?

  • A new perspective
  • Discovering a ‘better you’
  • Next stage
  • Taking stock

What you get

  • Access to all 6 modules and resources within the course

  • Danielle’s book: After The Split

  • Email access to Danielle who will answer your questions

Meet Danielle

I am Danielle Barbereau, specialist divorce coach and author. I founded my practice in 2010 becoming the UK’s first specialist divorce coach – the original you might say – and where I have gone others have followed. I have worked with over 1,100 clients on a one-to-one basis and developed my own method to help clients emerge and recover from a painful break-up. This set a trend and has now been adopted as the way to recover from heartbreak (following the publication of my first book).

My values:

  • Unique approach to my work
  • Emphasis on quality not quantity
  • Integrity
  • Incomparable industry reputation
  • Exceptional feedback from clients and solicitors alike

My work is professional, impactful and highly praised. I am proud of my reputation as an outstanding coach in the area of divorce recovery, with glowing testimonials from clients and their solicitors for my services.

I work with both men and women, and have supported many, many clients through difficult divorces and separations by helping them to:


• Survive a time of personal crisis, namely a separation or divorce
• Discover strategies and tools to get through a difficult breakup
• Disentangle feelings of confusion
• Feel empowered, clear-headed and able to express effectively what they want
• Rediscover who they are and what they want to do next in their life

Why Me?

One of the things I love most about my work is seeing someone move from the depths of despair and confusion to a place of clarity, strength, and determined that a life event will not define them. It is a true privilege to be able to help with this transformation, and it is a combination of my passion, hard work and dedication to this area of coaching that puts me in this privileged position. Together, they have helped me become:

• A specialist: I’m an expert in separation and divorce coaching, working with people who are going through a breakup or having to make difficult decisions such as stay together or initiate the breakup

• Highly qualified: I have a Masters Degree and I trained with a highly regarded organisation (Barefoot coaching), providing qualifications in coaching, accredited by the University of Chester and endorsed by the National Council of Psychotherapists (NCP)

• Experienced: I have specialised in divorce coaching for over 12 years and worked with hundreds of clients, all with different stories. Every client is unique; there is very little I have not heard, and nothing surprises me.

• Professional: I am a full member of the Association for Coaching, dedicated to promoting best practice and raising the standard of coaching worldwide

• Highly rated: By my clients and those who refer clients to me

• Respected: I work hand in hand with senior family solicitors in prominent legal firms across the UK

• Published: Author of After the Split: the definitive guide to recovery when relationships break down, now in its 2nd edition

• Collaborative: I am a Collaborative Family Law North member, and an associate member of Resolution, both helping couples achieve more amicable separations.

What my clients say about me

Elizabeth

Catering manager, Bakewell

‘I have never had a fairy godmother before’

Rose

Nurse, Sheffield

You were my anchor in a stormy sea

Andrew

CEO, Birmingham

Your work is not just about listening and supporting. Or giving techniques. It is about asking the right questions, which change everything. Our first session blew me over. I literally could not have done this without you.

John

CEO, Cheltenham

Thank you for our session. I feel so much better. I have clarity about where I am and why. You are a miracle worker.

Val

self-employed, Leeds

“Danielle came into my life as I was trying to recover from an unexpected and very painful separation from my husband (my partner of 32 years) - who had embarked on an affair. With her humour, lovely warm personality and wisdom she helped me forge ahead to a brighter future

Sophie

CEO, York

You are a miracle worker

At the end of the course:

The course will help you get clarity and move from a place of guilt, pain and confusion to one of hope and strength. This shift can begin to happen over the course. By the end of the course, you will notice lasting and deep change in your mindset.